Oct 06, 2023

Rethinking Pocket Money for Teenagers: A Guide for Financially Savvy Parents

In today’s fast-paced world, imparting financial literacy to our teenagers is more important than ever. As a Financial Wellness Coach, I often encounter parents who are unsure about how to handle pocket money for their teenagers. The truth is, the way we approach this can have a profound impact on their financial future. In this article, we will discuss the importance of rethinking pocket money for teenagers and provide some do’s and don’ts for parents.

Understanding the Significance of Pocket Money

Pocket money isn’t just about giving your teenager a few bucks now and then. It’s a valuable tool for teaching financial responsibility, budgeting, and saving. When handled correctly, pocket money can set the foundation for a lifetime of good financial habits.


The Dos for Parents

Set Clear Expectations: Begin by discussing the purpose of pocket money with your teenager. Explain that it’s not just for immediate spending but also for learning how to manage money responsibly. Outline their responsibilities, such as covering personal expenses, saving, and even contributing to household chores.

Regular and Consistent: Stick to a regular schedule for giving pocket money. This helps teenagers learn about budgeting and planning for expenses. It also ensures that they have a predictable income, fostering discipline.

Encourage Budgeting: Teach your teenager how to create a budget. Help them identify their regular expenses, such as school supplies or entertainment, and allocate a portion of their pocket money for each. This is a valuable skill that will serve them well throughout life.

Open a Bank Account: Introduce your teenager to the world of banking by helping them open a savings account. Encourage them to deposit a portion of their pocket money into this account regularly. This will teach them about interest and the importance of saving for the future.

Discuss Long-Term Goals: Encourage your teenager to set long-term financial goals. Whether it’s saving for a car, a dream vacation, or college tuition, having clear goals can motivate responsible financial behavior.

Use Technology Wisely: In the digital age, there are numerous apps and tools designed to help teenagers manage their money. Explore these options together and choose one that suits your teenager’s needs. These tools can make budgeting and tracking expenses more engaging.

Teach the Value of Comparison Shopping: Encourage your teenager to compare prices and quality before making a purchase. Show them how to research products online, read reviews, and look for the best deals. This will not only save them money but also instill the habit of making informed choices.

Promote Delayed Gratification: Teach your teenager that not every desire needs to be fulfilled immediately. Encourage them to wait before making a purchase to see if it’s a genuine need or just a passing want. Delayed gratification is a fundamental skill for financial success.

Set a Savings Percentage: Beyond allocating a portion of their pocket money for savings, consider setting a specific percentage that must be saved from each allowance. This ensures a consistent savings habit and reinforces the importance of saving.


The Don’ts for Parents

Don’t Give Too Much Too Soon: Be cautious about giving your teenager excessive pocket money. While you want to provide for their needs, giving them too much too soon can lead to reckless spending and a lack of appreciation for the value of money.

Avoid Bailing Them Out: If your teenager spends their entire pocket money impulsively and faces financial difficulties later in the month, resist the urge to bail them out immediately. Let them experience the consequences of their decisions, which can be a powerful learning experience.

Don’t Make It All About Control: While it’s essential to guide your teenager, avoid micromanaging their finances. Give them some autonomy to make decisions, even if they make mistakes. Learning from these mistakes is a crucial part of the financial education process.

Don’t Neglect Financial Education: Pocket money alone isn’t enough to teach financial literacy. Parents should take an active role in educating their teenagers about various financial concepts, such as interest rates, investments, and credit.

Avoid Materialistic Values: Be mindful of the messages you convey about money and material possessions. Encourage your teenager to value experiences and personal growth over material possessions. This can help them develop a healthier relationship with money.

Don’t Forget to Lead by Example: Children learn by observing their parents. If you want your teenager to develop good financial habits, it’s essential that you lead by example. Be transparent about your own financial decisions and demonstrate responsible money management.

Avoid Impulse Buying: Make sure your teenager understands the pitfalls of impulse buying. Discourage them from making hasty decisions without considering whether the purchase aligns with their goals and budget.

Don’t Use Pocket Money as a Reward/Punishment: Avoid the practice of using pocket money as a reward for good behavior or a punishment for bad behavior. This can create an unhealthy association between money and emotions. Instead, maintain a consistent schedule for pocket money.

Don’t Overshadow Their Choices: While it’s important to guide your teenager, refrain from imposing your preferences on their spending decisions. Let them explore their interests and learn from their choices, even if it leads to some mistakes along the way.


Fostering financial literacy…

Rethinking pocket money for teenagers is an important step in fostering financial literacy and responsibility. As a Financial Wellness Coach, I emphasise that pocket money is not just about providing for their immediate needs but is an opportunity to teach valuable life skills. By setting clear expectations, being consistent, and using pocket money as a tool for learning, parents can help their teenagers build a strong financial foundation for the future.

By following these guidelines, parents can empower their teenagers to make informed financial decisions and set them on the path to financial success and security in adulthood. Pocket money, when handled wisely, can be a powerful tool in shaping a financially responsible and independent future generation.

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